Finding a good boyfriend may seem near impossible in a world full of players. As females, we need a guy who takes care of us and helps us fill our emotional and sexual needs without hurting our feelings later or being rude to us. Of course, to have such a boyfriend we need luck that makes us meet and have a chance to try and see if we can get along. But, the question is… If we got the chance to talk to that top-class guy how can be sure to succeed and make him come after us?

For that, you need some techniques, and I’m here to enlighten you with some tricks and techniques. There are 3 necessary chapters before the relationship reaches the top speed. If you did them well you will catch your boy from his back neck ( I mean he will be so loyal and dependent on you).

I- FINDING THE RIGHT GUY.

First of the things you need to do to get a boyfriend is to build confidence, as some men get attracted to a girl that has high self-confidence.

The next thing is to figure out what you want to have in a guy, usually, we call that “Type”. Make sure you don’t rush or look for someone perfect because there are no perfect men around.

To find a boyfriend you need to go out and socialize, allow yourself to show up to everyone, and go arty and clubbing. But don’t get drunk or consume what make you look miserably. It destroys your public image

Also, you need to exercise before you meet the chosen one so you would be ready if you got the chance:

• Figure out your game plan.
• Practice it in front of the mirror.
• Pick an outfit that makes you feel good.
• Figure out what you will offer to him

II- MAKING A CONNECTION WITH THE ONE.

The second step is how to make a connection with the right guy. as to succeed and get in touch with the guy, you need to master 5 necessary techniques, plus your personnel skills.

1. Use your body to communicate.

Use your body signs to give a guy a hint that you like him without making yourself exposed to early rejection. To do so you need to:

• Lean closer when he’s talking to you.
• Use light touch from time to time when he’s next to you, try to lean on him. try to touch his hand if he’s holding something you wanna take from him.
• Try to make him feel excited by letting his body touch yours. That would make him feel attracted to you as well as showing you if he’s rejecting you physically.

2. Try to flirt from time to time.

As your relationship get along, the guy may start flirting with you saying good stuff about your face, your body, or some of your quality. being open to these words and showing him that you’re ok with that will boost further your relationship.

But, it will come your turn to flirt, so try these things:

• Slightly tease him by saying good stuff about his performance in work or sports or anything he likes to do.
• Show him that you care about what he says by laughing and smiling when he is saying something.
• Pour the guy with eye contact and smiling.

3. Start the conversation when he can’t.

Never be afraid to start a conversation. A lot of good guys are shy to start a conversation, as soon as you start the conversation, you will notice that he starts talking without stopping. A lot of times these guys are exceptional and unique. But their problem is they are shy to start. so don’t be afraid you may end up finding a mine of Gold.

4. Find a common ground.

For a relationship to be extremely healthy, communication is one of the basis. To communicate with him you need a subject to talk about. Try to find something he does that you may like to practice or to do, like movies or gym. You always have something to talk about.

5. Dating time.

After all of that building and sweat. It must end up on a date where you go out together. here comes your role. If you noticed that he’s cold or he doesn’t pay attention, try to ask him about his opinion on where to go or ask him if he has a plan for Friday night…

III. TIME TO BUILD A STRONG RELATIONSHIP

This is the last step, In this step it gets serious. Now you have a boyfriend, what can you do about that? how can you build a relationship where both of you grow yourself and benefit from it?

There are four things you must do in order to have a ground and start building a wonderful relationship.

1- Have maximum fun together.

Any serious relationship with a good guy stops when one of the two sides feels not worthy and benefits nothing from the relationship. For that matter, you need to have fun. Having fun makes him worthy and the relationship is beneficial for him. It becomes the shelter for both of you when life gets tough for both sides.

2- Spend time with each other.

Human beings have 24h/day. People divide that time between jobs, sleep, eating as well as having fun. If you didn’t fill your boyfriend’s time with your existence, someone will do and maybe it’s another girl who saw the value of your boyfriend. Make sure to have some of that time you can pick activities to do or play a game to see who will choose what to do that night.

3- Try new things together.

As time passes, there is a tendency to repeat. when things repeat themselves it becomes boring. That is the worst thing that can happen in a relationship.

For that matter find new things, habits, and activities to do from time to time, maybe learning new things together would be fun

4- Respect each other.

Respect! Some of the worst mistakes that usually happen in a relationship. When a couple gets along and talks about everything. There is a tendency that someone may start making bad jokes about the other one, which can be disrespectful. well nobody likes to be disrespected.

In response to that, another person starts to say a bad thing as payback, till it results in one hating the other. at that time the relationship ends, soon or later it will end. For that, make sure to respect each other at all costs and if the other side doesn’t make it clear that it’s not something acceptable